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When I'm stressed-out, I tend to get irritable, short-tempered, and a tad sarcastic. If my husband, Gordon, says, "Hey, honey, do you want to go to a movie later?" I might reply, "Sure, how about sometime in the next century when my work is finally done?" In past relationships, my snippy behavior has occasionally caused hard feelings. But with Gordon, it's not a problem. He loves and accepts me even when my best self is temporarily MIA. Rather than interpreting my remark as an attack, he sees it as a call for love and support. His compassionate response--often just a heartfelt hug--usually helps me put down my work for a few minutes and focus on him. Full story.
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